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 - Rehash of the same found everywhere elseI didn't find this book to be incredibly helpful, as (a) I have no children, and (b) I technically make more money than my X2B does. I was hoping for some insights on how to come out of the divorce as best I can, but didn't see anything new here. If you don't have any kids, let me summarize what you'll get from these books: Pay attention to retirement plans/401Ks, make sure you have enough liquid assets to make it through the next several years (vs. settling for high value non-liquid assets only), and recognize that divorce is hard! Personally, I found phone interviews with divorce attorneys to be the most helpful source of information. Good luck! Rating:  - One Stop ResourceThis is the single best, most complete divorce book on the market. It took me from start to finish and saved me from making some expensive mistakes. Because there's a psychologist who's writing, too, and not just a lawyer, the book tuned me in to some things I hadn't thought about, like how my kids feel if I say something bad about my wife in front of them, or why it's hard to get my financial records together (because it symbolizes that my marriage is actually really over). All in all, this was a super helpful book and a bargain. Rating: - Knowledgeable authorI know the author of this book and she is an expert. If you are contemplating a divorce or going through one, definitely get this book. It's written for you. Rating:  - Practical divorce adviceInteresting book coming from both the perspective of the divorce lawyer and a psychologist. Some good, solid advice here. While going through a divorce you should gather as much information as possible and know how to protect yourself both emotionally and financially. Seven Secrets to a Successful Divorce Rating: - Important book, along with...Divorce is one of the most grueling experiences anyone can go through, and this book is a great guide for easing the challenges. The book is packed with information on the legal and emotional issues that are likely to arise -- and how to deal with them. The topics span the board, from making the initial decision, to preparing for trial, to how to talk with the kids about it all. THe authors have a section on negotiating with your spouse, and I think that that is essential. They mention the work of Harvard's Roger Fisher, who just published a new book that you don't want to miss if you're dealing with divorce. The book is 'Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as you Negotiate.' (The chapters on autonomy and appreciation struck a chord with me and offered great advice.) In association with Amazon.com | |